Gharońjre Haṛam-Buḍhikoaḱ ṭhại ar Kạmiko

Paromen 25 Julae, 2021 Kr. serma Rajshahi `Cathedral’ mison Baganpaṛa torop khon haṛam-buṛhikoaḱ mãhã manao hoena. Noa japaraore ḍherkaete  Ạdibạsi haṛam buṛhiko se̠le̠ťlena. Japarao reaḱ kạmi horako mudre maraṅaḱ do̠ tahẽkana- `Gharońjre haṛam buṛhikoaḱ ṭhại (hal halot) ar kạmiko. Ado̠ Galmarao epemre oka jạsti sodorenko do̠ nońka-

Haṛam buṛhi do̠ okoeko ? Ne buj lekate bon men daṛeaḱa okoe baba ar gogokoaḱ umạr 65 serma ghaloḱ cetan hoeakan ar goṛom haṛam goṛom buṛhiko hoeakan onkoge haṛam buṛhi do̠. Sãote bin gidạr eṅgat apatakan se̠ goṛom haṛam buṛhi baṅ hoeakan menek 65 serma umạr cetanko hõ haṛam buṛhiko saboḱ kana. Ar nokoko khonge mare ho̠ṛ se̠ purkhạ ho̠ṛko do̠. Ar manwa hisạbte abokoaḱ dae kạmiko do̠ aboaḱ jiṅgi umạr lekage jeleń se̠ khaṭo hoyoḱ kana. Noa kạmiko reaḱ gun abgun, pasnaoteť (ব্যাপকতা) do̠ ḍherkaete ṭehãḍoḱ kana manwawaḱ kạmi haobhao (কর্ম-পরিবেশ), kạmi reaṅ phaelaoteť (কর্ম-পরিধি)ar apnaraḱ goṛhon (গঠন), colon beohar reaḱ bataboron (চারিত্রিক বৈশিষ্ট্য) ceatan. Arhõ aboaḱ hoṛmo ar monteaḱ goṛhon do̠ asokaete apan ạpin gharońjre eṅgat kukhi ar bale belteń gidrạ pạṛiạ khon  haṛam buṛhi umạr hạbić. Ar hẽ, sãote abo beṛhae reaḱ haobhao (পারিপাশ্বিকতা), sikhạuna ṭhaona (শিক্ষাপ্রতিষ্ঠান), apnar dhorom reaḱ sikhạuna ar emanko reaḱ urạli se̠ dhamas (প্রভাব) do̠ aboko cetanre menaḱgea. Noa goṛhon reaḱ caherteť (গঠন-প্রকৃতি)gunạḱte  (কারণে) aboaṅ dhạrti ṭunḍaṅ daṛe metaḱme dam-bud (মূল্যবোধ) do̠ tearoḱ kana. Ona do̠ arhõ sodoroḱ kana aboaṅ cal colon reaṅ bataboron bhitrite enakathae iń do̠ ce̠ť lekanić ho̠ṛ kạnạń mente. Khan aboaṅ manwa bhạsi (মানব-প্রকৃতি) do̠ gidrạ umạr khon juạn hạbić, se̠ ona cetan hõ, tearoḱ kana ar haṛam buṛhi o̠kte̠re aboaḱ bhạsi, hewal, dam-bud leka bon cal colon, beohareť kana. Ar jạstikaete onka dharage abo do̠ suk se̠ duk bon ńamjoṅ kana.

Arhõ bon ńeleť kana juạn o̠kte̠re-

• Sanamkoaḱge apnar cinta bhabna ar apnar jiṅgi-buṭạ (জীবন-কেন্দ্রীক)se̠ apnar gharońj-buṭạ aṅgao-guṭ kạmi-kạsni (চিন্তিত কর্ম-পরিকল্পনা) hõ ḍher kom menaḱgeta bona. Ar onka leka korao lạgiť hõ khup bon kurumuṭueť kana.
• Apnaraḱ ae rojgar daṛe leka jo̠m ńũre hewa ar mon reaḱ ṭan hõ tearoḱkan tabona.
• Gidrạkoko haralen khan onkokoaḱ goṛhon, cintạ bhabna, ae rojgar, bapla bihạte kiminkoko hijuḱkan ar onkoaḱ acar beohar, goṛom gidrạkoaḱ janam, joton hara buruko nana parkan haobhaote abo do̠bon urạloḱ (প্রভাবিত)
• Noako urạli reaḱ jo ar sirjon dhara lekate metaḱme boesal umạrre boge bạṛić do̠ noṅka hõ ńel botejoḱa-

1. Haṛam buḍhikoaḱ do̠ gharońj ar apasul babotre ne-juạn koṛa kuṛiko khon bạ̃ṛtige aṭkar-buj (অভিজ্ঞতা)
2. Haṛam buṛhiko do̠ gharońjre akoaḱ siṅghinteť (গুরুত্ব), tinạḱganko bạsutoḱ (মর্যাদা) kana, jo̠m ńũre somanteť ar somoe lekako ńamda se̠ baṅ noako babotre ạḍiko ãegea (সেনসিটিভ) ar hape hapete jotoaḱko tạṅkhia .
3. Okoeko do̠ gidrạ leka soṛa (সরল) mon tearoḱ takoa, oka do̠ko landa ocoa, oka do̠ arhõ ạḱris ar edre ocoa.
4. Apnar daṛe cetanre oka do̠ ạḍi pạtiạu, oka do̠ be̠bhorsa hijuḱa. Disạ daṛe, bujhạu daṛe, ńeńel, ańjom, pusṭạu ro̠ṛ- daṛe noako kom calaḱa. Khan eṭaḱ ho̠ṛaḱ goṛo ạḍiko asoḱa.
5. Ńindạ jạpiť kom, algate lać bạṛić, presar, ḍaebeṭik lekan cetat ruạko coṅ ńańama. Enḍekhan mejaj bạṛić ar be̠bạsutoḱkan do̠ ạḍi usạrako bujhạua.
6. Daṛan, golpo baṛae asokaete rạnḍi ranḍako ńam baṛaea.

Haṛam buṛhikoaḱ kạmiko–

• Gidrạ heo, ńel todarotko, – merom bhiḍi, gại gupiko, – haṭ bajaroḱ ar eman ạcuko ańjom, – oṛaḱre gogo se̠ bạhu biṭiko daka utui kạmire goṛoako.

Haṛam buṛhiko cetante hoyoḱa be̠lek kạmiko–

• Haṛam buṛhiko cetanre ạṛis, ạtruń mon, baṅ ro̠ṛako se̠ tergeń ro̠ṛako, jaoge judạ judạ dohoko, boge judạ baṅ kuliko, ruạ hasore baṅ joton, ran re̠he̠ť baṅ bebosthae ‍se̠ derie, bichnạ ar kicrićko baṅ saphae, jo̠m ńũ jạruṛ sumuṅ ar o̠kte̠ nạpit baṅ emako, haṛam buṛhiko bad kate oko kombṛo jo̠mjoṅ ar emanaḱko.

Haṛam buṛhikoaḱ dosko–

• Ase̠ć tase̠ć jo̠m hewa karonte ńamaḱ jo̠m ńũ cetan bạḍrại, bachao baṛae. Nisạko ńũ-latao (নেশা-আসক্তি) gunạḱte ńam baṛae ar ńũ bul kate gur poṭoć, ti-jaṅga rạpuť, ar aṭeť bichnạko lohod. Tho̠ṛatege usạdoḱ ar eṭaḱ ho̠ṛko ṭhen oṛaḱ ho̠ṛkoaḱ oktae. Oka do̠ ṭaka paesa reaḱ  ṭonṭa baṅ bujhạu ar gidrạ leka jigir khoj. Kimin bạhuko são, jạsti do̠ hanharea mudre torko jhogṛa ar emanko.